Released in 1990, it marked the third and final single from Strait’s highly successful album, Livin’ It Up.
Strait, a giant in the world of country music, is known for his smooth baritone vocals and his ability to weave relatable stories into his songs. “I’ve Come to Expect It from You” is a prime example. Here, we encounter a narrator grappling with a love that’s consistently fallen short.
While many country songs delve into heartbreak, this one takes a slightly different approach. It’s not a ballad filled with soaring emotions and cries of despair. Instead, it simmers with a quiet anger and a touch of resignation. The narrator isn’t surprised by the latest betrayal; it’s become a wearisome pattern in their relationship.
Background
The song’s brilliance lies in its simplicity. Songwriters Buddy Cannon and Dean Dillon craft a story that unfolds naturally, relying on relatable imagery and a conversational tone. The opening line, a frustrated “How could you do what you’ve gone and done to me?” sets the stage perfectly. It’s a question many listeners have likely asked themselves at some point.
What truly elevates the song is Strait’s masterful delivery. He inhabits the character completely, conveying a mix of hurt, anger, and a hint of weary acceptance. There’s no grandstanding, just a quiet intensity that pulls the listener in. The instrumentation, a classic country backdrop of acoustic guitar, fiddle, and steel guitar, complements the vocals perfectly, adding a touch of twang without overwhelming the emotional core of the song.
“I’ve Come to Expect It from You” wasn’t Strait’s biggest hit, but it’s a song that resonates with fans for its honesty and emotional depth. It’s a testament to his ability to capture the complexities of human relationships in a way that feels both timeless and deeply personal. It’s a song that lingers long after the last note fades, prompting reflection on the nature of love, betrayal, and the bittersweet sting of acceptance.
Harley